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Books Author seeks to restore balance lost for millennia
THE VALUES OF
BELONGING: REDISCOVERING BALANCE, MUTUALITY, INTUITION, AND WHOLENESS IN A
COMPETITIVE WORLD by Carol Lee Flinders Harper San Francisco, 218
pages, $24.95 |
Reviewed by JUDITH
BROMBERG
Carol Flinders has a noteworthy enough thesis in Values of
Belonging. She looks around (as many of us do) and sees a world out of
kilter. For a long time she assigned the cause of that imbalance to the
inequality between the genders before she concluded that gender imbalance is
only a symptom, not the cause of the real problem.
The real problem, she asserts, stems from a paradigm shift that
took the culture from a pre- to a post-agricultural society. The
pre-agricultural society was populated by a race of hunters and gatherers
living a lifestyle based on what Flinders chooses to call the values of
belonging. Survival in this early era depended on an intimate connection
with nature and the environment, that is, the land, the animals and the other
humans. Flowing from this relationship of connectedness developed mutuality,
inclusiveness, (generally) nonviolent conflict resolution and an openness to
Spirit.
In their world, God was fluid, everywhere, and was identified with
the earth as a mother who fed and sustained them. Concurrently, women enjoyed a
status quite equal to men. Foraging women, Flinders explains,
are now thought to have been considerably less dependent on hunting males
than early researchers believed. She goes on to say that as much as
70 to 80 percent of the caloric intake of the hunter-gatherers came from food
accumulated by women and children. The fact that women could support
themselves as foragers gave them considerable autonomy, and because of
womens intimacy with the land they garnered valuable intelligence about
animal movements and seasonal shifts. Even womens reproductivity is
thought to have been enhanced by a supportive network of older women, thus
offering a genetic advantage to their whole linage. Subsequently,
women enjoyed a more or less egalitarian relationship with men in this
pre-agricultural era.
The world of the hunter-gatherers was not easy, nor was it
perfect, but for the two-and-a-half million years it prevailed, it evolved and
adapted into what Carl Jung would call the collective unconscious of the
human race. In other words, despite the gathering storm of an
agriculturally based economy, the values of belonging never went away, they
were merely submerged into and under the values of enterprise,
which characterize the latter period.
One simple way of describing the difference between these two
systems is to note that hunter-gatherers belonged to the land in the former
whereas the land belonged to the farmers in the latter. With ownership of the
land came dominance, competition and exploitation all showing up as a form of
materialism. Hunters had a vested interest in sharing. Meat, after all, would
not keep, therefore, sharing was not only a form of generosity but a practical
necessity. In the age of agriculture, food grown could be hoarded and became
more than sustenance. It became capital.
Not only do we see in this paradigm shift the nexus of greed and
capitalism, but also the incipience of aggression in problem solving.
Agriculture, Flinders would have us bear in mind, is by its
very nature aggressive. Farming is always somewhat like war; it pits one man
against another in competition for limited resources -- land, water, labor and
market share for ones crops. The commercial institutions that
have come along in the wake of agriculture -- institutions wherein if
were lucky we make a killing -- are also involved in
activities that are somewhat like war.
The question we are all asking about now is how or why this
revolution into agriculture came to pass in the first place. Unexpectedly, it
did not occur in one region and then spread to the rest of the world. It
transpired pretty much simultaneously among all the populations within a
relatively short period of time. Flinders short answer is that the
triggers are unknown. I would suggest that if any of this has grabbed you so
far, you might want to read Riane Eislers excellent book, The Chalice
and the Blade, for a more in-depth treatment of this phenomenon.
But back to the gender issue. If ever there was a tipping
point in human history, a time when womens fortunes turned definitively
for the worse, the onset of agriculture was surely it, Flinders
theorizes. As the land was valued for its fertility, so now were women, as they
and their offspring became a commodity in the agricultural system. And as for
the values of belonging, recall, if you will, that they never did disappear,
they were just subsumed under and within the values of enterprise. What
happened was that the values of belonging became feminized whereas the values
of enterprise belonged to men.
In the writing of this book, Flinders casts her analytical net
more broadly than deeply and makes the same point several ways from several
angles. For example, in this casting about we learn something about the
basket-weaving of the Pomo Indians, the invention of timekeeping, the co-opting
of institutional religion by Constantine, womens suffrage, the nature of
childrens play, crime in the United States, classical literature and
more. She also spends too much time trying to convince readers of points
already made and accepted, sort of like preaching to the choir.
The book comes into its own again in the last chapter when she
finally gets to some of the practical applications of her thesis, that is, the
need to reincorporate the values of belonging as an equal player with the
values of enterprise. She identifies some highly influential men and women who
have successfully integrated the two. She also traces the evolving awareness of
a personal friend who started out practicing conventional law as a litigator,
moved into mediation law, and is now practicing collaborative law.
The growing practice of organic farming is another hopeful sign as
is an ongoing integrated studies program at one high school that, over a period
of 13 years, restored the entire length of an endangered creek, planted trees
and built a hatchery. Students who graduated 10 and 15 years ago come
back every year to visit the hatchery and they speak of their experience there
as life-changing.
On a personal note, I would add that the high school I teach at is
incorporating Barbara Kingsolvers latest book, Small Wonder
(NCR, May 17), into four courses taught on the sophomore level in an
attempt to integrate the curriculum around some of the environmental issues
Kingsolver feels strongly about.
Like Kingsolver in both her fiction and non-fiction, Flinders has
touched on a host of topics, and, in retrospect, if her approach raises
awareness in a fraction of her readers, maybe she wasnt only preaching to
the choir, maybe she will make some new converts. To that end, I would say,
Amen.
Judith Bromberg lives, writes and teaches high school English
in Kansas City, Mo.
National Catholic Reporter, October 4,
2002
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