Inside
NCR
Further
thoughts this year of older persons
The enthusiastic response to a
Perspectives column on older persons published in the May 28 issue confirmed
the view that the elderly are unsung national treasures. Activist Vic Hummert
wrote a haiku from Louisiana:
Fear not old age Since life in the Spirit Like wine
is best later
I am a 91-year-old Sister of Mercy, wrote Sr. Mary
David Lucier from New Hampshire. In my long life I have taught every
grade from kindergarten to college English and worked 21 years among the
indigent of South Carolina. I am now in a nursing home using a walker because
of a broken hip. I write letters, read worthwhile books, see quite well and
refuse to give up easily.
Lucier is, as we noted in an earlier issue, a revolutionary. So
much happened in her life, big or small, a million things each day, literally,
thoughts, desires, encounters, pain or victory, surprises or old routines: In a
wasteful world that whole reservoir of experience, of living, of memories goes
poof when we die, blown on the wind, buried in the ground -- unless of course
we are able to hold on to every bit of it and raise it up with us and carry it
to a higher level and put it to some new purpose or enjoyment. In short, there
better be some kind of a heaven.
But it would be equally disastrous to wait for hereafter. We
squander so much of our time and, especially, energy waiting for the future.
Frank Canatella sent in a poem he wrote in middle age when he was a little more
than half his present age:
WHY
this stingy parceling out of life? I wanted
mine all at once!
So I thought. My timid eyes reached out for the
counterpart of my PASSION yet frightened that I should find
it.
Instead I found other eyes reaching out of empty places.
WHAT cosmic joke is this born to a hunger for which there is
no FOOD
The undertow of oblivion pulled me to an alternative
respite. Still, in each eye I sought fullness while I dangled a yo-yo
of despair and hope looking ahead into the cursed darkness till one day I
chanced to look behind where life had been.
In my frantic
gropings I had seized life without recognition in my rage I had used it
without knowing.
Alas, life is the struggle for it. Life is too much
to have all at once.
Fear of not having life becomes fear of
wasting moments to enrich and riches to fill them.
Now, I stand
in line in this slow time eagerly awaiting what once seemed
such MEAGER PARCELS
The valleys fill as the hills
erode.
Several readers called in search of the Vaticans document to
commemorate the Year of Older Persons, The Dignity of Older People and
Their Mission in the Church and in the World. This can now be found on
NCRs Web site:
http://www.natcath.com/NCR_Online/documents/index.htm
Our prison story is a somber
reminder of how much the American dream is just that.
While the nations prisons remain a necessary evil, we
confront the incongruous task of making them somehow humane and ministering to
the human wreckage of this imperfect society.
Prison ministry is a worthwhile and difficult calling. Two books
on the subject happened to come in as we were going to press. This is not a
review, just a notice that such books are out there.
Voices of a Prison Ministry, by Sr. Josephine Migliore,
with David T. Whitaker (Bonus Books Inc., 160 E. Illinois St., Chicago IL
60611, $14.95). Migliore, 84, has been visiting the notorious Cook County
Correctional Center for 14 years. She shares her experiences and letters and
other writings received from inmates.
Inside the Fence: A Handbook for Those in Prison Ministry,
by Fr. David M. Schilder (Alba House, Society of St. Paul, Staten Island NY;
$12.95). Schilder has spent 18 years as a chaplain in two state prisons.
-- Michael Farrell
National Catholic Reporter, July 2,
1999
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