Destinations Traveling with a sense of passion and
wonder
By LEN BIALLAS
For many of us, the tragic events of
Sept. 11 have reduced our desire to travel, especially abroad. In spite of
security measures, we feel our enthusiasm dampened. We no longer feel safe away
from home, fearing we may be caught in a holy war simply because we
are American.
Still, travel is an integral part of our human lives today. As
Mark Twain reminded us, Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry and
narrow-mindedness. ... Broad, wholesome, charitable views cannot be acquired by
vegetating in ones little corner of the earth. Travel is a vital
tool for educating ourselves about the world. Even more important, travel is
crucial for our spiritual wholeness.
Is there a spirituality of travel? How can we tour in such a way
as to energize our lives and enhance our spiritual commitments?
I want to suggest that the myth of Parsifal and his Quest for the
Holy Grail can frame the basics of a spirituality of travel. In this medieval
Christian myth, Parsifal is instructed by his mentor to ask the questions
Whom does the Grail serve? and How can I serve others?
In so doing, he will find the Grail, and deliver the infirm Grail King and his
kingdom from a curse of sterility. When he quickly chances upon the Grail
Castle, however, Parsifal is so overwhelmed by the brilliant riches and
dazzling splendor that he completely forgets his mission.
Not recognizing he is in the presence of the sacred, Parsifal
wastes years searching for the sacred without success. The knights
virtues of loyalty, honor and courage do not satisfy him. With a deep pang in
his heart, he visits a hermit years later and asks for forgiveness for
approaching life the wrong way. The hermit instructs him to return to the Grail
Castle, and this time to ask the above question. As he does, the Grail King is
healed immediately and the wasteland and its people are revitalized.
To really find the Grail, he has to ask the question of
compassion, of how to serve the needs of others. As it turns out, the Grail is
not a magical cup, nor knightly glory and fame, but the joy and happiness that
comes from ministering to others. Indeed, the Grail is no less than the
recognition of the unfailing eternal presence of God all around him.
When we leave home -- near or far, for a few days or weeks -- our
experiences in new environments are so exciting and overwhelming that we too
refrain from asking about the spiritual significance of our experiences.
As tourists we leave home to escape, get lost, find distractions
and amusements. We take vacations to renew family relationships, to rob winter
of its sting, to restore our physical and emotional health. We go for comfort
and convenience, shopping and souvenirs, peace and quiet. We go to catch up on
our reading and revive our flagging energy.
We flock to Las Vegas, to artificial cities such as Disney Land
and Disney World to satisfy our need for spectacle and entertainment. We head
for vacation resorts in Mexico and the Caribbean to escape our ordinary lives
and to find sensory diversions. While our tourist travel may be beneficial and
necessary for our well-being, it does not bring us any closer to the Grail.
Like Parsifal, we can re-imagine the way we travel. How can we
journey with a sense of passion and wonder? How can we satisfy our hearts
longing for beauty, adventure and intimacy?
We desire to experience the unexpected. A car with Paris license
plates pulled up next to the car my wife and I rented to refuel at a gas
station in central France. The station owner calmly turned his Open
sign around to Closed. After a heated exchange, the Parisian roared
out of the station, honking his horn. As the owner reversed the sign, he
confessed that while French people living in the countryside dislike Parisians,
they want to treat foreigners very kindly.
Sharing a prize pineapple
We hope to broaden our cultural horizons. In Lithuania my
wife and I went to a lake retreat to celebrate Midsummer Night after finishing
a month of teaching conversational English to adults. The men and women there
were attired in native costumes for games and dancing. After one lady and I won
the two-on-two basketball tournament, she posed for pictures with her trophy, a
pineapple. She then cut the pineapple into small portions and offered pieces to
everyone -- a luxury to people who had never tasted pineapple, fresh or canned,
until the Russians left their country in 1989.
We aspire to learn how people in other cultures and religions
perceive us. In Havana, we volunteered to paint desks and chairs for the
afternoon. To thank us, some young third-grade students sang some Afro-Cuban
music. We asked them if they had a message for American children. One brave
young girl looked directly at us and said, We worry about the American
children. They live in such a violent society.
In Cairo, some Muslims in a shared taxicab told us they found
Americans to be lazy and overweight. You dont get out of cars to
post a letter, to drop off money in a bank or even to get food at a
restaurant. They further remarked that we pay extreme attention to our
bodies (or none at all), yet our health care is costly and chaotic. We have
excellent universities and graduate schools, yet our children are spoiled and
badly educated. We are restlessly mobile, yet have no interest in other
cultures.
We go to share emotional experiences. Before the collapse of the
Berlin Wall, we shared a table in East Berlin with a young soldier and his
fiancée. Fearing hidden microphones, they talked in whispers. We
followed their advice to go to the top of a hill in West Berlin produced from
World War II rubble. There, we saw families looking through a telescope at an
apartment building in East Berlin. With tears in their eyes, they waved
handkerchiefs to their loved ones who were more than a mile away looking back
at them through binoculars.
In search of the sacred
We have to journey as pilgrims, seeking to find the sacred in our
everyday experiences and to transform ourselves through deeper union with God,
others and the world. As pilgrims we perceive the entire world saturated with
the magnificence and splendor of the sacred.
Visiting sacred centers we experience solitude and solidity,
permanence and grace. We find spiritual well-being in our multicultural world.
In mosques, Muslims all over the world turn toward Mecca for their prayers to
Allah, like so many iron filings attracted by a magnet. In mandirs,
Hindus invoke the divine presence by reciting mantras and performing ritual
gestures. Seeing and being seen by the gods and goddesses in the puja
rituals, they participate in divine lila, that is, cosmic play.
In Orthodox churches, the created world is illuminated by the
light of divine energy that transforms humans and nature. The icons are windows
through which we open ourselves to receive the life-giving force and
inspiration of the divine. Reality is transformed. Creation itself radiates
divine brilliance. The saints represented on icons illustrate humans sharing
the intimate presence of God.
Our favorite destinations to visit nature are often our
national parks. There we find revelations of the sacred in rocks, trees and
water. At Yosemite, the mountains are stepping stones to heaven, linking the
material and the spiritual worlds. At Niagara Falls, the spectacular tumble of
waters arouses a free fall of emotions. At such moments we detect the flow of
divine grace in the arteries of the natural order.
From the Jewish tradition we learn to detect the presence and
power of the sacred in a burning bush, the wind, an earthquake, a peal of
thunder and even a still, small voice. With the Psalmist we let out a ritual
shout of triumph as divine beauty possesses our whole being: Sing your
joy to God, all the earth.
From the Hindus we are reminded, that which in the lightning
flashes forth, makes one blink, and say, Wow or Ahh--
those exclamations refer to divinity. Hindus revere their rivers as
sacred and they dot their banks with pilgrimage shrines. To bathe in the holy
water of the Ganges is to have impurities washed away by contact with the
divine being who stretches from earth to heaven.
Everyday interactions with other humans remind us of the sacred.
At the Jade Buddha Temple in Shanghai a group of elderly ladies bowed to us
with hands folded against their breastbones. They made the gesture that says,
I salute the divine consciousness within you. They offered incense
sticks to a Buddha statue poised at the moment of enlightenment.
In Uganda, after our volunteer work at a local hospital, we
relaxed on the veranda overlooking the banana fields. Several school girls, all
neatly dressed in pink uniforms, stopped near us before heading home down the
steep hillside. With no common language, we appreciated each others
presence in silence for several minutes. My wife poured glasses of ice water
for them. The glow in their eyes and their bright smiles exhilarated us. They
had never tasted ice water before.
Visiting cities, we recognize that vast panoramas of
buildings and public spaces repeat the original creation of order out of chaos.
Muslims believe that if cities are what they should be, then they are holy
places, where humans live and fulfill their destinies in harmony with one
another. Their city fountains are the living springs of water that provide
life-giving, spiritual blessings from Allah who constantly refreshes their
bodies and renews their inner lives with peace and serenity.
In Zen Buddhist sand gardens, the few large rocks symbolize the
world of the infinite in earthly form and awaken our thoughts to seek inner
harmony. In Chinese Taoist gardens the subtle currents of unseen energies of
the forces of Yin and Yang create a delicate balance.
The proportions of classical monuments infuse us with their sense
of permanence and mystery, their aesthetic majesty and magnitude. Overwhelmed
by the Taj Mahal, we gasp in amazement at this teardrop on the cheek of
time, whose minarets, mosque, gate and gardens, are a testament to
spousal love and fidelity. Climbing in and out of the kivas at the magnificent
cliff dwellings of the Anasazi Indians at Mesa Verde, in Colorado, we feel we
are in the presence of a tremendous and fascinating mystery.
In cemeteries we recall that our lives have limits in space and
time, and that our joys and sorrows are played out within some greater sacred
design. We appreciate that sacred time is embedded in the natural rhythm of
life, and that death is not the conclusion of life, but merely an episode in
the story of life. In the Jewish Cemetery in Prague, Czech Republic, we felt a
palpable connection to those Jewish ancestors who knew and lived by the ancient
wisdom of Isaiah that God will destroy death forever, and wipe tears away
from all faces.
Time is an eternal present
At a burial site in Hawaii, Buddhists have adorned the graves not
only with photographs but with rice, oranges and tea, believing that the
spirits will absorb the essence of these foods. The spot has been chosen near
both mountains and water. Here we recall the Buddhas teaching that
those who die before they die, do not die when they die. Time is an
eternal present, where moments of birth and moments of death are really the
same.
Our travels illumine and amplify what we already know about the
sacred. It is not that everything is sacred, but rather that the presence of
the sacred permeates our world, lending it coherence, structure, meaning, and
vitality.
Parsifals travels are dotted with detours and roadblocks. To
the pilgrim these hardships are nothing compared to the knowledge and wisdom we
gain. With optimism, we find brightness on rainy days. With a sense of humor,
we do not let flight cancellations and mechanical failures impede our
enjoyment. With a sanguine attitude we can communicate in a language we do not
know. With unselfconscious spontaneity we chuckle at hotel rooms with puzzling
handles and knobs on the showers and toilets.
Instead of getting frustrated when we get lost, we agree with Kurt
Vonnegut that detours and other glitches are dancing lessons from
God. Instead of becoming bitter at unpleasant surprises, we juggle our
perspective and refuse to take ourselves too seriously. Instead of arguing
whether to visit a museum or relax in a park, we appreciate our good fortune to
have travel companions who share our passion for adventure and have a similar
energy level.
While travails often perplex and swallow up tourists, pilgrims
realize that we cannot expel ugly surprises without banishing lovely ones as
well. Tribulations are the necessary prelude to self-transformation.
Through his travails Parsifal discovers a sense of purpose that
centered on dying to his self and opening himself to the world of the sacred.
His travels end at the Grail Castle, which is not so much a homecoming to a
physical place as to a state within his mature self. The end of his travels is
self-transformation.
Our homecoming likewise is to a state of heart. The end -- and the
goal -- of our travels is the appropriation of the sacred power we have
encountered into our everyday lives. In this way we find fulfillment in our
love and achievement in our work. Pilgrims realize that God is transcendent yet
closer to us than our jugular veins. We sense the sacred as the unknowable and
unnameable mystery within which everything is embraced, sustained and given
special meaning and value. Our travels are ultimately voyages of personal
discovery that fills us with deep gratitude for life and all that sustains it.
Still, even as we return home, we look forward to our next travel
away from home. As Thomas Merton expressed it: In one sense we are always
traveling, traveling as if we did not know where we were going. In another
sense we have already arrived. We cannot arrive at the perfect possession of
God in this life: that is why we are traveling and in darkness. But we already
possess God by grace. Therefore, in that sense, we have arrived and are
dwelling in the light.
Len Biallas is professor of religious studies at Quincy
University, Quincy, Ill., and author of Pilgrim: A Spirituality of Travel
(Franciscan Press).
National Catholic Reporter, April 12,
2002
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