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Report: PRIESTS Painful, purifying dark night
By TOM ROBERTS
It may be doing an injustice to skip
right to Chapter Seven of this remarkably candid assessment, The Changing
Face of the Priesthood: A Reflection on the Priests Crisis of Soul,
because in the end it may not be the most important or significant topic
treated. But it will be the most talked about.
Considering Orientation is the chapter of The
Changing Face of the Priesthood (Liturgical Press, $14.95) that deals with
the increasingly disproportionate number of homosexuals in the Roman Catholic
priesthood and the one that leads the author, Fr. Donald B. Cozzens, to ask if
the priesthood is on its way to becoming a gay profession.
It is a devilishly difficult question to ask, first because almost
no one in the hierarchical ranks wants anything to do with it, and because one
can only approach it through a minefield planted wide with homophobes,
right-wing zealots who see homosexual clergy as a particularly noxious
manifestation of a liberal agenda, and the churchs teaching that the
homosexual orientation is objectively disordered.
Cozzens, a priest of the Cleveland diocese, ably makes his way
through the minefield with an understanding of the institutional dynamics as
well as the men, gay and straight, who are todays priests and
seminarians. It is an issue, like so many, that demands discussion and that
will not go away no matter how deeply the church digs itself into denial. It is
an issue whose implications for the priesthood must be faced
compassionately but candidly. Cozzens contribution to such a
discussion, should it ever take place, would be substantial.
That contribution will be detailed at some length later. There is
good reason, however, to cover the ground leading up to Chapter Seven, for the
crisis of soul of the Catholic clerical culture is deeper than one element. The
crisis is persistent and threatens the very life of the church as a eucharistic
community.
It is Cozzens love for the priesthood that motivates the
book. He speaks warmly of the majority of priests in whom he finds great hope.
He is convinced, too, that that the priesthood is at the edge of a new
day following a painful yet purifying dark night.
But that is not to ignore the crisis. And the truth and depth of
the crisis is, in part, contained in the numbers.
During the last three decades of the
20th century, Europe and North America have experienced a decline of 80 percent
in the number of candidates studying for the priesthood and a 40 percent
decline in the number of priests. Less known is the shrinking number of priests
under 40. In the Cleveland diocese in 1970 there were 240 priests under age 40;
in 1999, there were only 35. And researchers predict that in less than five
years, only one in eight priests will be under age 35, with the average age
near 60.
Twenty years ago there was approximately one priest for
every 1,000 Catholics; in 2005 the ratio is likely to be one priest to every
2,200 of the faithful.
Even more ominous are the figures he cites from a recent study
sponsored by the National Conference of Catholic Bishops. Parents were asked to
respond to the statement, You would encourage your child to pursue a
career as priest or nun. Only 8 percent strongly agreed; 25 percent
agreed; 48 percent disagreed, and 19 percent strongly disagreed. A
staggering 67 percent disagreed or strongly disagreed with the statement.
In light of this report, one in five Catholic parents would strongly
resist a child pursuing a vocation to the priesthood or religious
life.
Still, it is reasonable to ask why anyone should sit through yet
one more depressing rundown of the ills of the priesthood. By now the outline
of the faltering structure is a familiar sight on the landscape of U.S.
Catholicism. But it seems also to draw little concern from those who have the
power to keep it from collapsing.
Despite all the gloomy forecasts that have been played out in
secular and religious media, Cozzens, in an earlier interview with The Plain
Dealer, said he believes church leaders have not asked, What is
Gods spirit saying to us through these most recent crises, the sexual
misconduct with minors and the large numbers of priests, men of goodness and
faith, who have stepped away from their calling?
This was a book, he said, that he had to write, one that has
been percolating in my soul since my days [teaching] at Ursuline
College.
The lack of church attention to the crisis is nothing new. As
early as the late 1960s, the bishops had asked a group of priests and academics
to put together a study of the priesthood, which had just begun to feel the
first tremors of the reforms of the 1962-65 Second Vatican Council. The report
was remarkably prescient in its assessment of the future of the priesthood. It
was done by a group of priests and lay people unquestionably loyal to the
church, and the committee was overseen by a young, not-yet-bishop, Fr. Joseph
Bernardin. But few took heed of the findings, and the bishops essentially
shelved the report. The strong suspicion was that the bishops simply did not
like what they read.
This book, too, is done by a
loyalist, someone who has been a priest now for 35 years, who has served his
church as dean of clergy for the Cleveland diocese. Cozzens, 60, is now rector
of the Cleveland dioceses St. Mary Seminary and serves as chair of its
admissions committee.
Many are not going to like what they read, and Cozzens knows it.
The hard look which is at the core of this reflection has inevitably led
me to give considerable space to issues that are, quite frankly, both difficult
and painful to write about, he says in the introduction.
Some will be disturbed by what follows, others will be
threatened. Perhaps such responses are inevitable when a reflection such as
this includes a spiritual and psychosexual analysis of priests today. It may
well prove particularly challenging to candidates preparing for the
priesthood.
It did not take long for his prediction to come true. Apparently
publication of the book and the piece in The Plain Dealer, which was
distributed by Religion News Service, caused something of a furor among priests
and seminarians in Cleveland. So Cozzens refuses now to give any more
interviews.
The book speaks for itself.
Cozzens, with a doctorate in
psychology, assesses the priesthood in Freudian and Jungian terms. While
dismissing Freuds anthropology, his rejection of any teleology, any
transcendent purpose and meaning to life as woefully flawed, Cozzens
applies an iconic or metaphorical reading of the famous Oedipal
complex, part of Freuds remarkable blueprint of the unconscious and
... the subterranean dynamics of the human psyche, to the current
priesthood.
As reconstellated in Cozzens schema, the
presbyteral Oedipal complex reveals the newly ordained priest as
son, with the local ordaining bishop as father and the church as mother.
As the hidden psychic drama unfolds, the maternal church, though
supportive, is also demanding and controlling.
[The priests] sexuality is restrained, his dress is
determined, his residence assigned. This mother wants him for herself. The
defining decisions most men make as they claim their personal ground as men are
denied. At the same time, the ecclesial mother in partnership with his
father-bishop provides identity, status and security. Add to this the rich
and meaningful life of pastoral leadership and service and you have the makings
of a well-established Oedipal conflict. The strong undercurrents of anxiety and
restlessness easily go unnamed and if they remain unnamed, as a matter of
course, lead to a simmering envy and rage that for the most part remain just
below the boiling point. Add to this mostly hidden psychic drama the inevitable
stress of pastoral ministry in a church wrestling with its post-conciliar,
renewed understanding of its identity and mission, and you have an environment
that will tax the healthiest of priests. Relief is sought often in destructive
patterns of behavior to both priest and parishioner.
Just as the boy must eventually make his own way to healthy
adulthood while remaining loyal to the family, so the priest, in resolving the
Oedipal complex, must suffer the anxiety and tension of being loyal to
the church and faithful to his own vision. Those who do not stand
in the fire leading to true adulthood, writes Cozzens, follow one
of two paths: either becoming sycophant ecclesiastics and pious, effete clerics
or the less common but equally destructive path of the maverick, the one
who finds fault with everything that comes from the bishops office.
The psychological framework of Cozzens analysis is easy to
navigate, in part certainly because of the familiarity of the story and of his
starting point: the enormous shifts that occurred in the reality and perception
of the Catholic clergy following Vatican II.
In pre-conciliar days, the priest was the prestigious focal point
of an immigrant church, the undisputed communicator of truths, mystery and law.
Today, his role remains conflicted and ambiguous. Old images
dont work any longer, and new images, devoid of sentimentalism,
continue to surface as the priesthood strives to renew itself in light of the
general renewal inspired by the Second Vatican Council.
That renewal, of course, comes up against persistent and sometimes
successful attempts to roll back the reforms by those who have ascended to
power in the Vatican. They have worked hard to re-establish the distance
between ordained clergy and the people and to confine renewal and
experimentation to the most restrictive understanding of the law. They insist
on strict adherence to rules that most lay people have long become comfortable
ignoring.
Out of that prevailing Vatican attitude, writes Cozzens, emerges a
deep crisis of authority, compounded by the crimes of priest sex abusers and
the churchs handling of those crimes. As church leadership faced
the stress and tension of crisis management brought on by a small but
significant number of its priests, Cozzens writes, the
churchs teaching office saw its power to enlighten and reconcile, to
challenge and encourage, diminished by its unwillingness to listen seriously to
those outside the inner corridors of the Vatican establishment, including large
numbers of bishops belonging to the very college constituted to teach
authoritatively in the name of Christ.
He quotes Denis Hurley, the former
archbishop of Durban, South Africa: There is no going back to the old
idea that ready-made solutions can be handed down by authority.
Authoritys new role, said Hurley, is to set up the conditions in
which a solution can be sought by the church, that is, the community. In most
cases there will be no final solution, only a continual attempt to adjust to a
perpetually evolving situation.
A crisis of authority and of the priests stature in the
community on top of dramatically lower numbers are enormous enough problems.
However, that drop off, due largely to what some call the heterosexual exodus
from the priesthood that has occurred since the 1960s, created a priesthood in
which the percentage of gay men is inordinately higher than the percentage of
homosexuals in the general population.
Cozzens chapter on homosexuality begins with an anecdote. A
few years ago, he writes, he was talking with a group of seminary rectors and
deans who were gathering for a meeting. The topic of conversation was the
growing number of homosexual seminarians. One of the rectors recounted that on
his flight to the West Coast conference with another priest, someone in the
next seat overheard their conversation about the upcoming meeting and asked if
they were priests. When the two said yes, the other passenger asked without
hesitation, Does that mean youre gay?
Startled at the question, one of the priests inquired what
led him to make such an assumption. Nothing in particular, he
answered, just impressions that took form in recent years.
So much of the understanding of the
church and the current state of the priesthood is carried in our own stories
and intuition. More than 15 years ago, I sat with a man who had been head of an
order on the East Coast. As almost an aside, I asked about the orders
seminary that we could see from where we were sitting. Are you still
getting the best and brightest? His demeanor changed. It became clearly
pained, and he answered that they were not getting the best or brightest and
that many, if not most, of those entering were gay and, he said, he knew they
remained sexually active. He didnt, quite frankly, know what the order
was going to do.
Another priest, some years later, someone who had worked with
sexually troubled as well as gay priests, predicted in private conversation
that the next scandal that would run through the clerical ranks would be
priests with AIDS. What was more essential than ever, for both straight and gay
priests, those sexually active and those who kept their vows, was that priests
and bishops begin talking about sexuality, he said. He also predicted that
would not happen because there was no will to delve into such a difficult
topic.
Cozzens, an insider, a loyal son of the church, a
priests priest as his friends describe him, has taken the
bold step.
I confess to a certain anxiety as I begin this reflection on
homosexuality and the priesthood, he writes. Whatever is said about
such a sensitive and complex issue is open to misunderstanding and seeming
insensitivity. Some will deny the reality that many observers see as changing
the face of the priesthood - that the percentage of homosexual priests and
seminarians is significantly higher than it is in society at large. Others will
see any attention given to the phenomenon as a symptom of the homophobia that
is characteristic of individuals with less than open minds. Still others will
wonder what difference sexual orientation makes in the celibate lives of
priests. Regardless of the risks, the issue, I believe, deserves
attention.
It is estimated that 20,000 priests have left the active ministry,
most of them to marry. Their absence, it can be argued, has dramatically
changed the gay/straight ratio, writes Cozzens. Furthermore, the
need gay priests have for friendship with other gay men, and their shaping of a
social life largely comprised of other homosexually oriented men, has created a
gay subculture in most of the larger U.S. dioceses. A similar subculture has
occurred in many of our seminaries. He says he knows of one Midwest
congregation of men that has a gay caucus when they have large meetings.
What kind of numbers are involved is impossible to pin down. The
U.S. bishops are not doing surveys of the issue. Cozzens cites several sources
of estimates of homosexual orientation in the Catholic clergy that range from
more than 20 percent to nearly 60 percent. In one footnote, Cozzens recounts
that he heard a religious order priest with long experience in both
formation and leadership state publicly at a conference on AIDS and the mission
of the church that 80 percent of his large East Coast order was gay.
The other information is gleaned from his own experience as a
seminary rector and from conversations over the years he has had with other
seminary officials from around the country.
Cozzens does not argue against ordaining gay men. He acknowledges
that there have in history been significant instances of gay priests, bishops
and even popes. He doesnt do much to dispute the assertion by some that
the priesthood has always been a vocation primarily for homosexuals. In fact,
he describes homosexual priests as men who tend to be nurturing,
intelligent, talented and sensitive - qualities especially suited to ministry.
Often they excel as liturgists and homilists. Without question, gay priests
minister creatively and effectively at every level of pastoral leadership. The
vast majority keep their orientation to themselves.
What, then, is the problem? Is it even appropriate to ask the
question?
Does it matter? Does not the question reveal still another
form of homophobia? he asks. Is it not another manifestation of
discrimination and suspicion? Some would say the issue is best left alone, that
we would all be better served not to notice the proverbial elephant in the
room.
But ignoring it could have disastrous effects, writes Cozzens.
In spite of the present glut of empirical studies and investigations,
human sexuality, so intimately wedded to the life of the soul, still surpasses
our full understanding and comprehension. And so, we waver. Nonetheless, it is
right that we press on. Pastoral and formational concerns require that we do
so.
A gay subculture in seminaries and among ordained priests, argues
Cozzens, has a destabilizing effect on heterosexual members of the clergy. The
straight seminarian or priest in such circumstances is often
gripped by a self-doubt that defies his best efforts to understand.
The resultant psychic confusion
has significant implications for
both their spiritual vitality and emotional balance.
When sexual orientation in the seminary is addressed only
indirectly or in individual counseling sessions, Cozzens says, both the
emotional climate of the seminary and the formation program itself
suffer.
He cites Fr. Robert Nugent, an advocate in the church of
homosexual rights, on the issue of formation in todays seminary:
A one-size-fits-all approach to celibacy
formation without considering the unique differences among the candidates of
age, life experiences, socio-cultural backgrounds and sexual orientation is no
longer adequate, given the changing ethos of Catholic life and ministry,
says Nugent. Differences in background, experience and sexual orientation
cannot be adequately addressed by a highly idealized or overspiritualized
celibacy formation program not in touch with the concepts, language and sexual
realities of
diverse individuals.
Further, argues Cozzens, an
overwhelmingly gay clergy culture will have an effect on how the laity views
the priesthood and it will have an effect on incoming vocations. Potential
candidates for the priesthood who are heterosexual will be intimidated from
joining an institution where the ethos is primarily that of gay culture.
What occurs up to Chapter Seven may be framed in new and
innovative ways, but it is a familiar story known by anyone who has not
purposely blinded himself to the chill truth. The material in Chapter Seven is
something new for an active priest of Cozzens stature and training to be
opening up publicly. He is pressing, one senses almost desperately, for the
broader conversation that others have been calling for privately for years.
In fact, he would lash Chapter Seven tightly to what went
before:
The priesthoods crisis of soul, and by extension, the
churchs crisis of soul, is in part a crisis of orientation. Sooner or
later the issue will be faced more forthrightly than it has in the closing days
of the 20th century. The longer the delay, the greater the harm to the
priesthood and to the church.
Tom Roberts is NCR managing editor. His e-mail address
is troberts@natcath.org
National Catholic Reporter, March 31,
2000
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